Gender fluid...!

[Flooky]

WTF ???
beam me up scotty :eek
I cant believe all this shit about being a man or a woman or neither.. maybe I am too old for this world

[Hugh Mungus]

Copied from the Urban Dictionary - as I wasn't certain WTF "Gender Fluid" was referring to. Now I've read it I can make some sort of sense of it but I agree, the world has gone to pot.
[color=rgb(19, 79, 230)]Gender Fluid[/color] is a gender identity best described as a dynamic mix of boy and [color=rgb(19, 79, 230)]girl[/color]. A person who is Gender Fluid [color=rgb(19, 79, 230)]may[/color] always feel like a mix of the two traditional genders, but may feel more boy some days, and more girl other days. Being Gender Fluid has nothing to do with which set of genitalia one has, nor their sexual orientation.
No, I'm not a [color=rgb(19, 79, 230)]boy[/color], and I'm not a [color=rgb(19, 79, 230)]girl[/color] [color=rgb(19, 79, 230)]either[/color]. I am gender fluid.

[Grahamm]

I cant believe all this shit about being a man or a woman or neither.. maybe I am too old for this world

It depends on whether you can look beyond the definition of what you consider as "normal" which, for most people is "what I was told when I was growing up".

FYI gender is *not* a simple binary male/ female description, despite what a small minority of very vocal feminists claim, nor is it simply a matter of the "if you were born with a penis you're a man" nonsense.

[Flooky]

I thought if you were born with a penis you are a man ?
Seems like a new trend for the youngsters to avoid fitting in.
oh well back to the garage then.. hide with the tools and ignore this rubbish

[YamFazFan]

I was expecting this thread to be about an upgrade of DOT 5.1 :lol

[tommyardin]

I thought if you were born with a penis you are a man ?
Seems like a new trend for the youngsters to avoid fitting in.
oh well back to the garage then.. hide with the tools and ignore this rubbish

I'm with you Flooky, you can tell/kid yourself just what you want as long as it fits in with your life style and preferences.

Look at any other species, dog, cat, mouse, horse, mule, elephant, spider and list goes on and on, in all these species the male has the penis the female the vagina, I am not aware of any (Choice) gender dysphoria in the animal world. But it's all OK now, because 51% of the population say it's OK, so you can not challenge anyone. I put the word (Choice) above because some live bearing fish can actually be both sexes, guppies being one of them.

It was the same with the gay community 51% of the population said it's OK so you don't have to go to jail anymore.
Two males or females getting married in church it's OK. Vicars, Priests and others in the church hierarchy its OK, being gay its just a choice.

Please don't think I have a down on the gay community, but also don't tell me its normal and the way it was designed, if we all go that direction the human race is focced, it's just that 51% are OK with it, not that 51% are gay it's just that we can not be seen to be prejudiced in any way.   

The population is living longer and longer, resources/pensions are being challenged to breaking point, the NHS is underfunded as well as our schools and utility services.
You wait until 51% of the population say that it is right and proper to terminate the elderly and infirm in the name of compassion (We all know it is all about finances)
Some will say that will never happen, but the truth is its has already started with amniotic fluid tests, babies with Down Syndrome are being terminated in the name of compassion, now I wonder if it is because most people with Down Syndrome will never actually be able to hold down a job and therefore never be productive in the work place and pay their way?
The medical profession will tell you that they have beaten/eliminated Down Syndrome, but that is not the truth, it is detected and advice is given to heart broken parents, it's not beaten it hidden.

Is having a job and being productive the measure of someones value? if it is then it is us old fuckers next for the chopping block, we are all absorber's producing zilch, and consuming everything, euthanasia and make a saving on the pensions and the NHS, also £200 a year per person on heating allowance, it will also sort out the housing problem as well, we are selfish bastards for keeping on living.
I have not written any of the above with the intention of causing anyone pain, whether Down Syndrome or the Gay community or Gender Dysphoria, but I have my opinions and others have theirs.

During the recession back in the late 80's I got out of the building trade because of the shortage of work and worked with adults with Challenging Behaviour
(Used to be classed as people with violent tendencies) for a care organisation for about a year, I quit because it was so stressful. 
I then moved on to a different sector in the care world working with adults with learning disabilities, I also did a lot of training and became an NVQ Assessor, assessing other carer's in their qualifications.
The client group that I worked with were adults that had been brain damaged at birth, either by accidents or mistakes, or just that early life had not been kind to them, the most loving and sensitive of these dear folk were the people who had Down Syndrome.

What I enjoyed about working with these folk the most was, what your saw was what you got, no bullshit, no trying to impress or making themselves out to be something that they are not. Bloody refreshing.     
Right I also off to my shed in the morning to do some work on the Honda C90, now that my monthly pension has come through. :lol

[tommyardin]

I was expecting this thread to be about an upgrade of DOT 5.1 :lol

Oops!  My mistake :eek

[Nemesis]

Hey does that mean I can marry my dog :rollin, bitch of course, or even my bike, now shes real nice :lol

[slappy]

Gender fluid in my day just meant swings both ways.

[ptolemyx]

On a similar tack of what you might be comfortable with......

My old dog was a bitch. She liked to lick my balls. That was nice  :b

My current dog is not a bitch. He too wants to lick my balls. Not having that, it feels queer  :rollin

[darrsi]

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I cant believe all this shit about being a man or a woman or neither.. maybe I am too old for this world

It depends on whether you can look beyond the definition of what you consider as "normal" which, for most people is "what I was told when I was growing up".

FYI gender is *not* a simple binary male/ female description, despite what a small minority of very vocal feminists claim, nor is it simply a matter of the "if you were born with a penis you're a man" nonsense.
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You're almost right.
Being gender fluid means your parents are fucked up trendsetting nutters who have no real care for you as the problems you will encounter growing up at school, etc, whilst trying their hardest to make you different, outstanding, or in my eyes a simple target just for their own selfish and narcissistic reasons is all a bit unnecessary.......in MY opinion.


And i think if you are born with a penis, then you most certainly are a man by definition in this world that we live in.
If a fella who decides to have a cut and shut and run around in a dress calling himself Mabel happens to commit a crime and leave DNA at the crime scene then police will still be looking for a bloke, no matter how big his tits are. 

[tommyardin]

Hey does that mean I can marry my dog :rollin , bitch of course, or even my bike, now shes real nice :lol

I have never or would never think about marrying a bike or a car because that is nonsencicle, but, with saying that I have fucked one or two during my lifetime.  :rollin

[YamFazFan]

It was the same with the gay community 51% of the population said it's OK so you don't have to go to jail anymore.

Is that actually how the law was changed?.

It was an absolutely ridiculous law.

The treatment of Alan Turing for example was disgusting. That man made an almost incalculable contribution to saving this country in WW11 with decoding Enigma.

OK he avoided jail, but had to accept chemical treatment instead.

Shameful episode.

[robbo]

Let's have it right. I wish the heating allowance was £200 per pensioner. That would be my bike insurance sorted. It's £200 per household, so if a couple are both pensioners it's £100 each. A pensioner only gets £200 if they live alone or their wife hasn't reached pensionable age.

[ponkster]

Seems to me Gender and Sexual preference/orientation are getting mixed up ! I you are born with male genitals .. well you are a man ( your gender)  - where you choose or are compelled to stick your genitals "after dark" is your choice and defines you sexual orientation.

Some things in life are binary- You are either a Man or a Woman 

[agricola]

[quote author=tommyardin link=topic=23665.msg274010#msg274010 date=1516148598]
It was the same with the gay community 51% of the population said it's OK so you don't have to go to jail anymore.

Is that actually how the law was changed?.

It was an absolutely ridiculous law.

The treatment of Alan Turing for example was disgusting. That man made an almost incalculable contribution to saving this country in WW11 with decoding Enigma.




OK he avoided jail, but had to accept chemical treatment instead.

Shameful episode.
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Of course, it never really happened like that. Over a time period, those significant and influential gay people who are in significant numbers, and influential positions, have moulded modern society to reflect their preferences and interests. Its called manipulation.

[YamFazFan]

I don't know about all that, but all the gay men I've ever known have been decent blokes.

It's up to them how they live they're lives.

I looked it up, it was an Act Of Parliament in 1967, but with certain restrictions.

[tommyardin]

Let's have it right. I wish the heating allowance was £200 per pensioner. That would be my bike insurance sorted. It's £200 per household, so if a couple are both pensioners it's £100 each. A pensioner only gets £200 if they live alone or their wife hasn't reached pensionable age.

Exactly my situation, I married a much younger woman, and she can keep me in the manner I have become accustomed to  :lol  the heating only goes on when she is out of the house, It's Mine All mine  :lol [size=78%] . [/size]

[tommyardin]

Seems to me Gender and Sexual preference/orientation are getting mixed up ! I you are born with male genitals .. well you are a man ( your gender)  - where you choose or are compelled to stick your genitals "after dark" is your choice and defines you sexual orientation.

Some things in life are binary- You are either a Man or a Woman

Here, here! the voice of reason

[tommyardin]

[quote author=YamFazFan link=topic=23665.msg274023#msg274023 date=1516179368]
[quote author=tommyardin link=topic=23665.msg274010#msg274010 date=1516148598]
It was the same with the gay community 51% of the population said it's OK so you don't have to go to jail anymore.

Is that actually how the law was changed?.

It was an absolutely ridiculous law.

The treatment of Alan Turing for example was disgusting. That man made an almost incalculable contribution to saving this country in WW11 with decoding Enigma.




OK he avoided jail, but had to accept chemical treatment instead.

Shameful episode.
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Of course, it never really happened like that. Over a time period, those significant and influential gay people who are in significant numbers, and influential positions, have moulded modern society to reflect their preferences and interests. Its called manipulation.
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There is an element of the above which has a bearing on the issue being discussed, but, it is just a bearing and not the whole picture, we live in a democracy and just like BREXIT like it or lump it democracy is at play in all decisions that are made on social and moral issues.