24-08-18, 01:49 PM
Sounds to me like it's time to walk away, and by the sounds of things take the kids with you. I'm in a long term relationship myself so I understand that there is a certain amount of give and take involved but nothing should ever come to threats and violence.
My other half wasnt thrilled about me getting a bike either but it's something I really wanted and have been passionate about ever since. She's now realised they aren't as bad as she thought so it's all good (well unless she sees how much I spend on bits for it.... then there might be some violence ??)
Maybe try talking to someone she respects ( mother, father etc) and explain what she's doing to you?
I can imagine it's hard opening up to others so well done for reaching out ?
My other half wasnt thrilled about me getting a bike either but it's something I really wanted and have been passionate about ever since. She's now realised they aren't as bad as she thought so it's all good (well unless she sees how much I spend on bits for it.... then there might be some violence ??)
Maybe try talking to someone she respects ( mother, father etc) and explain what she's doing to you?
I can imagine it's hard opening up to others so well done for reaching out ?