31-07-17, 10:00 PM
(31-07-17, 08:12 PM)noggythenog link Wrote: Can your wife not talk them round to letting yous guys take control of their finances BB?.....sounds like they've been targeted so the likelihood is that it wont be the last time it happens.
Even if they were to tell these types...'my son, daughter or whoever' controls my finances...maybe that's enough to put them off if they realise someone else is about to find out pronto and rumble them.
Several years ago, the FIL had major problems sorting out power of attorney when his mother was in a home and unable to deal with things. As a result, the in-laws sorted that out for my wife and her brother so when the time came it was sorted.
We don't want to go ni heavy handed and just do it so we have suggested to them a couple times over the last couple of days that maybe they should start looking at putting a limit on transactions with the bank that don't have a signature from my wife or her brother to stop this happening again. Trouble is, the in-laws think they know what they are doing. :wall
I don't think it will be too long before we enforce it for their own good but don't want to upset them in the process.
Another ex-Fazer rider that is a foccer again