If memory serves me correctly, standard dogbones were 140mm from centre hole to centre hole.
Any lower than than that raises the bike, and higher lowers it.
"...not particularly tall..." doesn't really help for guidance, are you a tall dwarf, or a small giant?

[size=1em]If your bike's been lowered then i'd imagine the bike would barely lean on the sidestand, and would certainly be a nuisance to get on the centre stand, but as mentioned if your centre stand is twisted this will also make things difficult, and you won't really notice it's fooked until you remove it, which is a lot easier than you'd imagine, just wear some gloves and expect a load of chain grease.[/size]
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