05-09-16, 09:28 AM
You could put it to her that you both need your alone time, she might feel better about it that way.
Do you know why she's forbidding you to go? It could be she has concerns about you i.e. safety/health etc.
Ok, that could be bollocks and since you've been together 34 years you'd think she'd be used to your biking, but it's possible she never got over worrying about it.
I'm obviously only guessing but that's exactly what's happening with me and my wife right now. She flatly refused me doing my DA, then relented. And now recently she broke down and said every time I leave on my bike she doesn't know if she'll see me alive again. But before she admitted that, it was just barney after barney for months. All this is made worse by having a 1 year old daughter on the scene too, so I have a "responsibility to stay safe" etc etc.
Thing is, women have a tendency to bottle these things up and it could be making everything else between you worse.
Do you know why she's forbidding you to go? It could be she has concerns about you i.e. safety/health etc.
Ok, that could be bollocks and since you've been together 34 years you'd think she'd be used to your biking, but it's possible she never got over worrying about it.
I'm obviously only guessing but that's exactly what's happening with me and my wife right now. She flatly refused me doing my DA, then relented. And now recently she broke down and said every time I leave on my bike she doesn't know if she'll see me alive again. But before she admitted that, it was just barney after barney for months. All this is made worse by having a 1 year old daughter on the scene too, so I have a "responsibility to stay safe" etc etc.
Thing is, women have a tendency to bottle these things up and it could be making everything else between you worse.
Broken, bruised, forgotten, sore,
too fucked up to care any more.
too fucked up to care any more.