http://foc-u.co.uk/index.php/topic,15140...#msg171589
http://benmlee.com/4runner/threads/threads.htm
I will say again, personally i think Copper Grease is great stuff BUT these thoughts also make sense too, so for lighter torque settings use the "nip up" technique, but for heavier stuff use oil.
I handle film cameras on a daily basis so i nip up tiny screws that if you blink you could drop them and never ever see them again, so i've never been heavy handed anyway.
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