Footballer Ched Evans

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Thing is if the roles were reversed you/I got pissed and this women had had her way with you/me we couldn't claim rape as it's not possible in law for a women to rape a man I'm told.  Now how can that be fair in this day and age I ask?

Because rape is a specific offense. It has to be penetration by a male (on a woman or a man). Other activities would be prosecuted as a sexual assault, including those committed by a woman.
You see, there can be no doubt that penetration by a man can only be a deliberate act. We're made that way .......