whose fault ? opinions ?

[stevierst]

It looks like 50/50 to me. She should have been more cautious, but so should have you.
Personally I don't spank it when there's stationary traffic on the opposing carriageway for many reasons including this one, the risks are just too great!
She has committed an offence by not stopping at the scene of an accident, and as for her being in a pub??? Well how do you prove she's been drinking?
I think the cops have dealt with it the right way, and tbh your lucky they did anything at all. You don't know what she said when the cops spoke to her, nor what they made of your video, but I've got a good idea.

I hope you have a speedy recovery bud, and are back in the saddle soon. Look into an IAM course once your all fixed, they show you techniques which you generally don't think of in situations like that. It just might help.