Chirstmas woe's

[fatbloke62]

years ago I was in a similar situation what ever I did or say I was always the outsider , I tried my best for a long time both time and money till I realised things would always be like this and to save a lifetime of crap I walked for my own sanity

[Gnasher]

If I can offer some hope it's the fact that there's a huge difference between freshers and final year students, majority of kids after the full University experience mature into well rounded adults. If only your M8 can hang in there.

He is in his last year mate!

He should have been on placement this year and then last year back at Uni but he didn't get a job, so he's now doing that last year.  From what he's told me he didn't really try to get a job/placement he left things until he'd left for the summer break, of course that was way too late and he's not exactly straight "A's" either.  He spent the whole summer pretty much doing was I stated above[size=1em] by all accounts, [/size][size=1em]everything comes to him, mates, girlfriend etc he's not had any reason to go and get any kind of work.  Which is why he'd agreed things had to change to stop that and make him need money etc, trouble is I think mum is finding it hard to stand up to son and if he does it will cause even more issues. [/size]

[size=1em]This is a bloody [/size]nightmare I feel for him as he's a nice bloke. [size=1em] [/size]

[celticdog]

Oh Dear    . . . I think he needs the man 2 man talk down the pub. If that fails there's always the threat of physical violence,  :evil  just make sure your M8 denies all knowledge of any such conversation taking place.  :rolleyes  I.e. make sure there are no witnesses.