UPDATE: well im sure i stated he was in a induced coma ! anyway my mate went out to see him in france and his family and due to him being in icu they can only see him for 2 hrs a day they encourage you to talk to coma victims as they say the last thing to go is your hearing
there was little change and a day later they tried to reduce his meds and reduced oxygen to 75% than overnight his breathing took a turn for the worse and he had a collapsed lung and they had to drain his chest and put him back on 100% oxygen but remained stable, over the weekend they have medically reduced the coma and oxygen 75%, today oxygen is now 65% there is more skin colour and he looks abit better so its positive but long way to go they cant sort out the broken back till he out of ICU and once he is we are going to france to see him.
Thx for all the great remarks and ive taken note of everything you all have said, seems strange but hearing wise words from like minded males does help rather than my gf saying i told you its dangerous!! anyway i think my feelings are not as raw now but im still very concerned about my friend, and tbh i think what made me question everything was the fact i have to help my father as my mother struggles as everything is totally new to her my father has only been out of hospital 2 weeks following 12 weeks in hospital and i sat at his bed everyday without fail as he means alot to me and now really depends on me and without my help not sure what would happen
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fazer is staying plus the fact my insure renew came thro £79 its a no brainer really and i do have another trip to spain in sept, if anythink ill ride with alot more caution as what ive seen will always stick with me.
Dave ...