I've lost count of the amount of times i've had discussions with new, and even old, car drivers who have no real interest in bikes, about stupidly placed drains, leaves, painted road markings, diesel, oil, petrol, people about to open car doors, BMW drivers, bus drivers, black cabs, BMW drivers, cyclists, BMW drivers, schoolkids, people walking from behind busses, BMW drivers, people crossing between static traffic looking the wrong way, etc.....oh, and BMW drivers, yet they don't really have too much of a clue what i'm on about?
As you're probably aware by now, being a non car driver i'm an absolute nervous wreck as a car passenger!
It was many years ago now, but i took a mate of mine out for a very brief spin on the back of my bike, as i was out with another friend at the time and he'd never been on a bike before.
Firstly, he was a big lump, i've now decided if you're over 10 stone you're way too heavy for my bike as a passenger, due to my own weight/top box/my law.
But in the 10-15mins we were out i've never heard such obscene language directed at other vehicles on the road.
He'd suddenly found himself totally vulnerable and exposed to danger, so when anyone came even close to doing a wrong'un he let them know.
To my sheer delight, once his death defying rollercoaster ride was over (a lot like me going to work every day) his response was fantastic.
In just a very short space of time his attitude towards bikers dramatically changed, but in a very positive way.
I did nothing wrong, we had no incidents, not that i cared about anyway, it was just a quick ride out, yet it opened his eyes from a totally different angle.
He even got off the bike saying "What a bunch of ****s out there", yet to me it had all gone smoothly.
I'm meeting him at a mates 40th in March, and i'll mention this story to him and see what he thinks now. As i said this was a long time ago so he's had plenty of years to gather his thoughts.
NOTE: BMW drivers should be included as part of the Theory Test.
Q: "..If you see a BMW driver, what should you do?.."
A: "..Presume they (always unintentionally) want to hurt you, so avoid them at all costs and take a wide berth whenever possible.."