You are doing far more than I would dare attempt and the on-going updates of your work on this post are going to be helpful to many others, keep it up and don't forget to keep taking photos as you go and post them here
"either my friend is a damned genius at doing this job, or one lucky $%*!?"
Anyway.....at least the head is off and i can now easily either repair the snapped studs, else buy a new head, which is what im tending to think might be best, i am sure i drilled one off center due to me trying the initial steps while the bike was in the frame and access was less than optimal...