That's the same reason the rear disc bolts can be a total bastard to remove.
mine came off pretty easily and i had no issues with them.
I am awaiting delivery of a rad cover (coming Thursday) so just been in the garage and all four came out no problem.Have you tried using a chisel on the edge of the head and tapping it around, it can help free it off and worked on one of the screws in my throttle assembly that was doing the same thing to me!Good luck hope it comes free for you.Doggy
With regards to the bend, this happened when I fitted a replacement. I took it off and put a couple of washers on the inside of the mounting points, (bloody tricky) but it took the bend out.