Me & my dad swear all the time, & have fun with it,stick us in a posh resteraunt though & theres no elbows on tables & no swearing, it's about doing what you want within reason & at suitable times.thats why we have friends from lots of different ilks & can adapt our behaviour to each.i was brought up to respect people & always be courteous & that's how i continue.theres no swearing at toddlers on here & lets be honest most people swear,friends,workmates,folk on here, it's completely natural to express ourselves & swearings a well established part of that.
Theres no doubt theres an element of truth in what you say simon but you must take a step back & realise how many arguments you get involved in on this site,your always at it so who's really at fault here the rest of the world, or you!.You come across as being a bit of a preacher, ramming ideology down our throats & i find that offensive so does that mean you should be banned?.
Way i see it, it's up to the older members to speak up if they think things arent as they should be,who are we to come in & start changing everything,all these other websites you mention are plain rubbish,boring & uninvolving & thats not what foc-u is about.