At the minute after applying gear oil the first 70 miles i am almost reluctant to lean over too much
If you apply too much even of WD you will get the same result. That said the thing to bear in mind with WD if you're not the most accurate and you over do it the mist gets on to the tyre. This acts a bit like silicon but not as bad, if you've ever used silicon water repellent or bike sprays and got it on a disc or tyre you'll know all about it very quickly, you've got to be careful with any spray, especially light oils/silicon.
Oiling using a brush or oil can directly onto the chain, should be directly followed by you wiping/running the chain through a cloth
BE CAREFUL when you do this so as not to feed your fingers into the sprocket
Wipe at the bottom
hand rotating the wheel towards the front of the bike slowly
NEVER have the engine running and the bike in gear. Also as this is done after each ride any surplus not caught by the wiping, will just drip off and/or drop to the lowest point, it will not drift onto discs or tyre edges. As oil flings off it also tends to fly off into the chain guard, sprocket cover etc, yes you will get some very small traces on the tyre wall. Only if the oil is still being added to or it's just been done, will there be a risk of the oil reaching the tread.